
Al.
Today. This morning the day begins well as I sit listening to a beautiful Blackbird serenading his belle. My spirit is uplifted. Then the phone rings – my climbing friend, Al, had passed away in the night. I’ve expressed my vulnerability here before, possibly cloaked in obscurity. Today I feel very vulnerable.
Yesterday. We had been out on a gentle walk in the Bowland uplands, I was about to write a post about it. My ex-work partner and I meeting up with a close friend who had recently lost his wife to that cruel cancer of the pancreas. I had attended her funeral last week. We three walked through farms owned by The Duchy of Lancaster. now King Charles. A welcome sunny afternoon after all the rain. We talked of many things. Lambs frolicked in the fields just beginning to dry out. primroses covered the banks surrounded by reef knolls. This is Curlew country.
A chance conversation, or was it destined? at one of these remote properties with a retired teacher. Not sure how it started but at one stage – “Do you remember Dave? I was his senior colleague for years in Blackburn” “Bloody hell yes, a lovely bloke I climbed with him for years” I replied. Naturally more reminiscing followed and I promised to phone Dave and tell him of the meeting and bring him up to date.
I first met Dave in Preston Hospital when he was recovering from a serious climbing accident. An accident in which Al was influential in saving his life. Despite that accident Dave and I formed a comfy climbing partnership with his wife’s encouragement.
A few years later through Dave I met Al (1982). I remember the day. It was at Attermire, a limestone crag north of Settle. Barrel Buttress to be precise. The start of a forty year friendship. He has made many appearances in my posts as ‘the plastic bag man’ – a reference to his trade rather than his street appearance. Regular meet ups in the Lancashire quarries every Wednesday night followed, along with the ‘rockman‘ and the ‘pieman‘. Holidays in the alps became an annual treat. Long days on the trails and long nights in the refuges. We lived life to the full is the euphemism.
We all got older and for some, physical activities were restricted. But that friendship continued with catchup meetings for a drink or a meal. Latterly all Al could manage was a phone call and then not even that. Bringing us to this morning. I ended up phoning Dave, not about my chance meeting with his headmaster but with news of Al’s death. Circles within circles.
Thanks for bearing with my vulnerability, here are some photos of that walk yesterday with friends in Bowland including that iconic phone box, now put into another perspective.. My thoughts are with Al’s family.








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In the words of Bob Dylan – It’s not dark yet.
So sorry. Replied by email.
Much appreciated. Don’t think you ever met him but you must have heard my stories.
Another reminder of how precious our days are. When people ask me why I hike in all weather, all year round, I tell them there is no time for regrets or missed opportunities.
Thanks. Exactly. Lets keep doing it.
This is why we get outside. I’m sorry about your friend.
Unfortunately I’m at the age when people start dropping off the perch.
I don’t intend to.
So sorry for the loss of your climbing friend BC. A sad start to your day but you have some lovely memories. Take care xx
Thanks Eunice.
A reminder of our humanity. It’s sad when a close friend passes away but it catches up with all of us eventually. Hopefully you’ve many years of walking – and posts – left.
Let’s hope so.
Sorry to hear this news BC. As you say, we seem to be of that age when our circle of friends and family sadly diminishes in number. My mother (99 last week) has lost most of her generation, and those remaining are pretty much house bound, so ‘coffee mornings’ have been replaced with phone calls. Stuff moves on… the charity I’ve raised money for over many years – township schools in Cape Town – has successfully run its course, to be replaced by a selection of UK hospices that have cared for family members and great friends in their final weeks of need.
We will try to get up your way soon. Grandson (13 in a couple of weeks) is showing interest in the Wainwrights!
Very best wishes
M
Thanks, Martin.
Good to hear from you.
I see you are still getting in your Parkruns, well done.